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		<title>CHILD CUSTODY IN THE MILITARY</title>
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		<category><![CDATA[Child Custody in the Military]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[EMAIL THE PRESIDENT UNTIL HE STEPS IN TO HELP SOLDIERS WITH CHILD CUSTODY]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[President Barack Obama on Child Custody]]></category>

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">STORY BY, 1st Lt. Brent Habley, Legal Assistance Office</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">Article quoted by, fortcampbellcourier.com</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">&#8220;Soldiers face many challenges when deploying to Iraq or Afghanistan. One challenge is the threat of having his or her current child custody order changed in court.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">Soldiers hear horror stories about “default judgments,” the legal way for saying you lose because you did not come to your court date. </p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">The Servicemembers Civil Relief Act (SCRA) is currently the primary protection for these issues Soldiers face. The following are steps a Soldier can take to protect his or her child custody order while deployed.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">Soldiers must first make sure they have someone that they absolutely trust, preferably someone who has no connection to the non-Soldier parent, collect and relay the “notice of hearing” from the Soldier’s mail to the Soldier down range. If a deployed Soldier has a trusted source relaying information from mail, the Soldier can take action before missing his or her court date.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">Once he or she receives notice of the hearing, the Soldier is to invoke the SCRA, which offers protection for Soldiers unavailable to appear in court for a child custody modification hearing.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">SCRA Section 202 states that a judge shall grant a stay for at least 90 days if: (1) The Soldier writes a letter or other communication to the judge that states the manner of the Soldier’s current military requirements (like deployment) materially affect the Soldier’s ability to appear in court and provide the date when the Soldier will be able to appear.  And, (2) a letter or other communication to the judge from the Soldier’s Commanding Officer stating that the Soldier’s current military duty prevents appearance and military leave is not authorized at the time of the letter.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">If a Soldier promptly follows these two steps, federal law requires that the state judge delay the proceeding. However, the SCRA only requires the judge to grant an extension for 90 days, often not enough time to cover the lengthy deployment. </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">SCRA Section 202(d) authorizes a Soldier additional delays if the Soldier again completes the notification process described above. This delay will allow a Solder to return home to the same custody order that was in place the day the Soldier deployed and gives the Soldier the chance to defend his or her child custody rights in court after defending his or her country abroad.</p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">Soldiers with questions should stop by the Fort Campbell Legal Assistance Office, Building 125 Forrest Road, or call (270) 798-0931.&#8221;</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">SOLDIERS WITH QUESTION SHOULD CONTACT YOUR LOCAL LEGAL ASSISTANCE AT YOUR INSTALLATION.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana">SOLDIERSRIGHTS.COM WILL HAVE more to this story and your rights as a Soldier. The problem is SOLDIERS do not have any Federal laws to help with their visitation, and while in the Military Judges are not following through with their State laws. Most States do not protect Soldiers or give them any special treatment from their Civilians. I am saying your State may be the problem. Check out the Story from CBS <a title="LTC STORY AT CBS.COM" href="http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2009/12/12/eveningnews/main5972251.shtml" target="_blank">Here</a> and pay attention to their link <a title="DOD POSITION" href="http://www.cbsnews.com/htdocs/pdf/DOD_position_child_custody.pdf?tag=contentMain;contentBodyLaws" target="_blank">here</a> because this is the DEPARTMENT OF DEFENSE POSITION, also listed below.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;line-height: 15.0px;font: 12.0px Verdana"><strong>DEPARTMENT OF DEFENSE POSITION </strong><em>still today</em><strong> (2010)</strong></p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">The Department applauds the efforts by those States that have passed legislation to the<span style="font: 12.0px Helvetica"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Department and encourages the other States to consider similar legislation.<span style="font: 12.0px Helvetica"> </span></p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Meanwhile, the Department is itself taking, or will take, a number of steps to further </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">protect our Service members: </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">First, the Secretaryof Defense has personally written the governorsof theStates that </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">have yet to pass legislation addressing the special considerations of child custody cases in </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">the military to urge them to pass such legislation.  </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Second, DoD has includedconcerns over child custody matters on the list of the </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Department&#8217;s 10 Key Quality of Life Issues,and these are now being presented to </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">governors, State legislators and other State officials.  On September 22, 2009, a </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">representative from the Department&#8217;s Office of Legal Policy and an expert in military </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">child custody met with each of the Department&#8217;s ten Regional State Liaisons and </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">discussed military child custody issues.  These liaisons are now reachingout to State </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">officials whose legislatures have not addressed militarycustody concerns to encourage </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">them to act.  </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Third, DoD will ask the military service Judge Advocates General and the Staff Judge </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Advocate to the Commandant to ensure they are doing all they can to work with the </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">American Bar Association (ABA), and State Bar leadersto publicize, emphasize, and </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">support the ABA&#8217;s national pro bono project, as well as pro-bono initiatives in the States.  </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">These pro-bono efforts can provide our Service members access to free legal </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">representation from some of the country&#8217;s mostaccomplished child custody practitioners.  </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Fourth, DoD is engaged with the military services to update and standardize Family Care </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Plans across the services.  These plans are developed to ensure that families are taken </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">care of during absences due to drills, annual training, mobilization,and deployment.  </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">They include provision for long-term and short-term careof children.  The Department </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">recognizesthat improvements to its Family Care Plan guidance can address many of the </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">custody issues that could otherwise result in litigation after deployment.  By clarifying </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">those who require a Family Care Plan and emphasizing the importance of custody </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">negotiations with the non-custodial parent early in the process—before deployment—the </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">issues that most often give riseto litigation can largely by avoided.  The Department is </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">convinced that these efforts can resolve far more issues in favor of our Service members </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">than can new Federal legislation.  </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman"> </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">IT IS UP TO YOUR STATE TO SAY IF YOU HAVE ANY RIGHTS FOR CHILD CUSTODY. FATHERS RIGHTS ARE DEALING WITH THE SAME KID OF PROBLEMS, BECAUSE THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT WILL NOT GET INVOLVED. CHECK OUT (GLENNSACKS.COM FOR FATHERS RIGHTS).</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman"> The only federal laws that SoldiersRights.com know of as of January 2010 is called the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act and is meant to protect Soldiers from civil court actions and administrative proceedings during military activation. They can&#8217;t be evicted. Creditors can&#8217;t seize their property. Civilian health benefits, if suspended during deployment, must be reinstated. </p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">Servicemembers Civil Relief Act reinforces the older law Soldiers &amp; Sailors Civil Relief Act of 1940 (SSCRA). And these have nothing to do with Child Custody.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">AGAIN CHECK YOUR STATE LAWS ON MILITARY RIGHTS FOR CHILD CUSTODY, AND MOST STATES WILL SAY, &#8220;IT&#8217;S THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD.&#8221; THERE NEEDS TO BE A FEDERAL LAW FOR THE MILITARY CHILD CUSTODY FOR THE STATES TO FOLLOW AND IT SHOULD DEFINE THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">I heard the saying from the best Attorney in the world, because he under stood you have to fight-fire-with-fire. Indeed, SoldiersRights.com does not recommend you use pure evil to win your child. Making evil comments and false statements about your spouse is not the &#8220;Best interest of the Child.&#8221; Indeed, lawyers that are really good use Attorney Blackmail instead. I am sure if you really want to push the envelope and use these words, fight-fire-with-fire; tell them that your spouse is a Child Molester. You never lose these kind of words and you don&#8217;t need proof in the eye of the Public. Is this not what your spouse is doing to you, using false statements about you to keep you from your Child, keeping your family from visit rights and using your child as a weapon. Again, think twice before you play this game fight-fire-with-fire, because this might really not be the best interest of your child.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">AS OF RIGHT NOW THE MILITARY DOES NOT HAVE ENOUGH FUNDING TO HELP WITH CHILD CUSTODY AND FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHTS. SOLDIERSRIGHTS.COM KNOWS LEGAL ASSISTANT FOR THE MILITARY ARE LIMITED ON WAYS THEY CAN HELP YOU FOR CHILD CUSTODY. THE ONLY WAYS I KNOW THEY CAN HELP YOU IS BY LEGAL ADVICE, AND VERY RARELY WILL THEY TYPE UP ANY PAPERS FOR YOU. YOU HAVE TO GET A PAID ATTORNEY TO WIN. IN MOST CASES FOR MILITARY WE HAVE TO SPEND THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS, AND STILL LOSE. MY FAMILY HAS SPEND OVER 80 THOUSAND DOLLARS OVER 13 YEARS, AND 20 THOUSAND WHILE I HAVE BEEN IN THE SERVICE 4 YEARS.</p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman">I finally have visitation every other weekend and the Judge in Knoxville Tennessee is making my ex-wife meet half way from Fort Campbell Kentucky three 4 hours away. Indeed, she is playing fight-fire-with-fire. <strong>I can only hope she DIES &amp; goes strait to HELL! Tarah Long Poss! is her name. Put her on the &#8220;Black List&#8221; on who not to get Pregnant!   </strong></p>
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<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman"><strong>SoldiersRights.com recommends emailing their Congress and encourage them to pass Federal Laws for Child Custody. </strong></p>
<p style="margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px;font: 12.0px Times New Roman"><strong>EMAIL THE PRESIDENT UNTIL HE STEPS IN!</strong></p>
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